You are a perfect candidate for Discernment Counseling.

If you are not ready yet, maybe you feel you want to sort through thoughts and feelings before sharing with your spouse. I can be a gentle yet challenging guide to help you see things more clearly.

My belief is there is always more that we are doing individually to impact our spouse than we realize. Discernment Counseling is designed to offer clarity and confidence around your role within the dynamic that got you to this point in your marriage and a direction you’d like to take it. There are three paths that we focus on during this 1-5 session work.

Path 1: Status Quo - Do not pursue divorce nor commit to couples therapy.

Path 2: Separation or Divorce.

Path 3: Reconciliation - Commit to 6 months of all-out effort of couples therapy with divorce off the table.